Jeans at a Baby Shower?!?

Jeans at a baby shower?!? I know there are more serious violations then this in fashion. But, because I saw this over the weekend I felt compelled to comment. This was not the average baby shower at your neighbors place, this was a catered event at the Sterle's Slovenian Country House.  It's kind of goes along with flip flops at the White House, wearing white at your friend's wedding, and dressing inappropriately at a funeral. I wonder what goes through one's head when they are clearly the only one in the room dressed in a disconnected way. Does it even register? Do you get a pass if you are a teenager? My response is a resounding, NO! Good breeding should dictate attire for certain occasions, irregardless of age. Say to yourself, would Kate Middleton approve? If not, please change! When I think of a baby shower, it is a joyous occasion, a celebration of generations. This is one of the biggest moments of a new mother's life, announcing to the world: I AM GOING TO BE SOMEONE'S PARENT!!! And you respond by wearing jeans...the same jeans you wore to your brothers t-ball game, the same jeans you wore to the grocery store, the same jeans you passed out in last week. Am I getting through yet?  In my humble opinion you should associate a shower with attending a play or musical. That includes wearing a dress, skirt and dressy top and or blazer, or if you must, dress pants. Those are all perfectly appropriate. Now you don't have to get super fancy, just show respect for the occasion. Think of Ann Taylor, the designs are understated and classic. You don't have to wear heels, flats or sandals would suffice. Remember your accessories, bring out one designer piece that Coach purse or diamond studs. What's the saying, "Be The Best You Can Be!"  When attending a shower, you are honoring your friends and family. Remember the venue, if it is catered or at a nice restaurant, then dressy attire will honor the new mother. Jeans at a baby shower is definitely a fashion faux pas!

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